Nate’s Monday Morning Message 

Welcome to Nate’s Monday Morning Message! The holiday season is in full speed and the end of the year is quickly approaching. No matter how you choose to celebrate, this time of year is truly wonderful.  However, it can also be a time filled with stress, anxiety and loneliness; and while we love our families, the stress of the holidays doesn’t always bring out the best in everyone. I love this short story below because it is a powerful reminder that our words have actions, and sometimes those actions can’t be undone. This week I encourage you to pause and take a breath before you speak or react in hast to something that upsets you. Choose your actions, and your words wisely.

From my family to yours, we want to wish you a very merry Christmas, happy Chanukah, happy Kwanza and well wishes for any other way you chose to celebrate the holiday season. Let’s make it a great week!


A long time ago there was a boy. He was smart, talented and handsome. However, he was very selfish and his temper was so difficult, that nobody wanted to be friends with him. Often he got angry and said various hurtful things to people around him.

The boy‘s parents very concerned about his bad temper. They considered what they could do and one day the father had an idea. He called his son and gave him a hammer and a bag of nails. The father said: “Every time you get angry, take a nail and drive into that old fence as hard as you can.”

The fence was very tough and the hammer was heavy, nevertheless the boy was so furious that during the very first day he has driven 37 nails.

Day after day, week after week, the number of nails was gradually decreasing. After some time, the boy started to understand that holding his temper is easier that driving nails into the fence.

One day the boy didn‘t need hammer and nails anymore as he learned to hold his temper perfectly. So he came to his father and told about his achievement. “Now every time, when you hold your temper all day long, pull out one nail.”

Much time has passed. At last the boy could be proud of himself as all the nails were gone. When he came to his father and told about this, he offered to come and take a careful look at the fence. “You did a good job, my son, but pay your attention to the holes that left from the nails. The fence will never be the same. The same happens when your say hurtful things to people, as your words leave scars in their hearts like those holes in the fence. Remember, we need to treat everyone with love and respect, because it doesn‘t matter, that you say you are sorry, the scars will not disappear.”



“Maybe Christmas, the Grinch thought, doesn't come from a store.” - Dr. Seuss

“May the lights of Hanukkah usher in a better world for all humankind.” Anonymous

“Every gift which is given, even though is be small, is in reality great, if it is given with affection.” –Pindar

“Christmas... is not an external event at all, but a piece of one's home that one carries in one's heart.” - Freya Stark

“Nothing says holidays, like a cheese log.”- Ellen DeGeneres

Nate Martinez, RE/MAX Professionals